One of the biggest misconceptions about my work is that I must dislike men. I understand why people assume it. Popular culture has painted Dominatrices as angry women in latex, taking revenge on the opposite sex one whip at a time. We're often portrayed as cruel, bitter or somehow seeking to punish. If the session calls for such disciplined, then of course the role is established with aplomb. But behind every great scene is a reality that begins with trust and mutual rapport.

It feels rather wonderful to be writing this. To let you know that Lady Ava is home. For the past couple of months I've been unusually quiet, and for once it wasn't because I was tucked away creating mischief. Life simply demanded that I stop. In June I underwent major surgery which resulted in the removal of my uterus. It weighed just over 2kg, which is rather astonishing when you think about carrying that around every day without realising quite how much your body has been

When searching for a dominatrix or BDSM session, many clients begin with the wrong question: “How much is it?” Price matters, of course. But price alone tells you very little about value. Because there is a world of difference between a cheap session and a luxury experience — and those differences are often felt long before the session even begins. For discerning clients, the better question is: What kind of experience am I investing in? 1. Cheap Often Focuses on Time. Luxury

Ah, Scorpio season — that delicious time when the nights stretch long, the air hums with secrecy, and our desires rise like smoke. It’s also, rather fittingly, my season… and this Saturday marks my birthday. First, my sincere thanks to my loyal admirers and devoted fans who have already sent gifts and tributes — each one has brought a smile to my lips and a glint to my eyes. Your thoughtfulness never goes unnoticed. For those still wishing to spoil me (and there’s still time