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When searching for a dominatrix or BDSM session, many clients begin with the wrong question: “How much is it?” Price matters, of course. But price alone tells you very little about value. Because there is a world of difference between a cheap session and a luxury experience — and those differences are often felt long before the session even begins. For discerning clients, the better question is: What kind of experience am I investing in? 1. Cheap Often Focuses on Time. Luxury