“I Just Haven’t Found the Right Domme Yet…” There is a particular sentence that lands in my inbox with almost comic predictability. “I just haven’t found the right Domme yet.” Or its slightly more dramatic cousin: “All the other Dommes have let me down.” Allow Me to translate. What you often mean is not that you are rare, misunderstood or uniquely complex. What you mean is: • You jump from one woman to the next the moment fantasy meets reality. • You expect instant chemistry