One of the biggest misconceptions about my work is that I must dislike men. I understand why people assume it. Popular culture has painted Dominatrices as angry women in latex, taking revenge on the opposite sex one whip at a time. We're often portrayed as cruel, bitter or somehow seeking to punish. If the session calls for such disciplined, then of course the role is established with aplomb. But behind every great scene is a reality that begins with trust and mutual rapport.

Protocol is an essential standard of being in service to Lady Ava.

“I Just Haven’t Found the Right Domme Yet…” There is a particular sentence that lands in my inbox with almost comic predictability. “I just haven’t found the right Domme yet.” Or its slightly more dramatic cousin: “All the other Dommes have let me down.” Allow Me to translate. What you often mean is not that you are rare, misunderstood or uniquely complex. What you mean is: • You jump from one woman to the next the moment fantasy meets reality. • You expect instant chemistry