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It feels rather wonderful to be writing this. To let you know that Lady Ava is home. For the past couple of months I've been unusually quiet, and for once it wasn't because I was tucked away creating mischief. Life simply demanded that I stop. In June I underwent major surgery which resulted in the removal of my uterus. It weighed just over 2kg, which is rather astonishing when you think about carrying that around every day without realising quite how much your body has been

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